don't text them

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Common questions

Home Screen widget: Add it from the iPhone widget gallery (long-press the Home Screen → + → search for don't text them). Medium size supports shuffle and “I didn't text them” on iOS 17+.

Unsent text / perspective: Drafts stay on your device. If online perspective is unavailable, the app may use on-device guidance instead.

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